Is it just men that try to start arguments with their significant others when they're in a bad mood?

It never fails. NEVER fails. He gets in a bad mood and he seems to want to start an argument. I try to deter him, and try to tell him in not so many words that he's being ridiculous. Shoot. If he wanted a blough jahb and breakfast, all he has to do is ASK instead of trying to make me angry and then getting both anyway.